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Thursday, May 23, 2013

The price of the anger





An elderly woman with a frown personality, often angry because trivial things, moreover, used when angry or cruel words, accidentally hurt a lot of people, so she communicates with neighbor friends are not harmonious.

She also knows her weaknesses, desires correct mistakes in this disease. But when the news more, she could not control my mind.

One day, a man said to her: "There is a temple near the teacher, as well as monks, not to ask why her advice, maybe the teacher can help her."

She also felt, whether in consultation with the teacher.

When she confessed her mood, she has a sincere attitude, so would like to get some testimony from the teacher that market. The teacher heard her silent narrative, waiting for her to say all, new leads her into a meditation room, meditation room, then lock the door and leave.

She had a desire to get the teacher's advice, but do not expect her teacher was locked in a meditation room has dark cold medium. She angrily shouted, as usual, she let the vile insults. But whether she is screaming way, but remained silent outside, the teacher did not seem to hear.

When no longer take it anymore, she would ask to change attitudes drop his teacher, but the teacher still does not change the hearts of his behavior, she still continues despite saying what they say.

Through a very long recovery, and finally in the meditation room, no yelling or talking to her again, then this time, outside the meditation room of the new voice teacher said, "She was not angry?"

So she angrily replied: "I'm just mad at me, I'm sorry to hear how others find the damn place to ask your opinion."

Zen master calmly said: "Even if she herself is not spared, how can she forgive others right?" Saying silent meditation.

After a period of silence, the teacher asked: "You are not angry?"

She replied: "Out of anger, then!"

"Why are all mad!"

"I'm angry, then what is the point? he is still not lock me in a dark room just cold just like this? "

Zen Master said with worry, "she behave this way more scary than that, she suppressed her anger into a place, an outburst that it is more intense." Saying, Zen Professor turned away.

3rd teacher asked her back, she replied: "I'm not angry anymore, he does not deserve me angry!"

Zen master says: "The root of her anger still, she needed to clear out of the cycle of anger first."

After a while, she took the initiative to ask the teacher, "O teacher, he can tell you what is not angry?"

Zen master came in, did not speak, only movements such as accidentally dumped a glass of water in the glass in his hand.

At that point she seemed to understand.

Turns out I'm not angry, they do have anger angry? Center field was empty, no one anything, then what is angry?

There is no anger in my heart, then how anger?

In fact not only angry self is suffering, and also the people around that upset. At furiously angry, unstoppable mouth, letting vile words, some words which could hurt the listeners, even those who love their attention.

"First anniversary starting center field, literature department appetizers", but just a thought arises as a result yard hurdles thousands of birth.

So do not be so because of the little things that cause the harm caused, the angry shouts of foolish behavior.

But we can not be an intelligent person, but at least we have enough wisdom to prevent his doing a foolish man. View lighter everything that does not like that, and found it useful in silence, meditating the enlightened life. From there we will feel life should not be tired as it sounds, nor as we were having hard times.

The little things, like the grains of sand in the shoes makes you uncomfortable.

Then you choose to shake off sand or discarded shoes? We can not wear shoes, because the long road still ahead, then why do not we have to shake off sand!

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