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Monday, May 27, 2013

Happiness come from?



Happiness is when you count more fun than sadness. The following tips help you create a serene way of thinking to find joy in love, and in family life.

1. Do not blame him when you are frustrated
Just questions like: "Why do not you ever give flowers for the weekend, right?" Or "I know I do not like about that later did he still do that?" That the peace between the two dented.
When asked people to impose their thinking on the other. You thought he would understand and do what they want.
But "the man from Mars, women are from Venus". So sometimes the phase difference between the two is so different thoughts, not because he lacks love you.
The joy of life is largely dependent on the way you think. When unhappy about his behavior, instead of looking angry and blame, you try to understand him calm.
In this way we make things better, but he also "breathable".

2. Discover the art of giving
There is a big difference between voluntarily dedicate and present to the purpose of requiring paid off.
You'd like to give someone something, but secretly expecting a response. This is not how efficiently create joy.
You just build happy successful concept that brings joy lover like myself to create fun for that.
Tribute is heartfelt generosity without reckoning. What do you bring to that person because of their joy, not yours.
To do this, you must take the time to find out what he is interested, wants. In addition to the physical value, be more interested in the gifts bring spiritual values.
Happiness is secured by ropes attached to the soul - the crystallization of time and effort to bring joy to someone you love. He is also happy that you're happy.

3. Learn to listen
Every day we hear the voice of someone you love does not know how many times, but not so-called "good listener".
Let's think beyond where you are to really pay attention to what people love to talk. Also do I have to look forward to, "he / she will say what I want to hear."
Sometimes silence together for the same feel as a way to listen - how can the love of the sympathetic heart.

4. Do not try to change him
Many people believe that "two people love each other only when they want to change for each other." Because of that thought, I always expect love will change in the direction they want.
If you think this is just the frustration, sadness would come much more fun. Because happiness lies in your ability to love all things of the nature of the person.
When you meet him, all the good / bad they gathered in front of that. But you still feel love. So there's no reason to love and expect people to change?
Instead you want to change, you should look how to think and act in accordance with the "object." From there you will be gentle and serene. It's not fun or what we can expect?

5. Practice patience
The "ring" has become affordable obsolete in today's world? But the lack of this virtue, nothing will be sustained at all.
Listen to someone you love, we need to be patient. To understand the mind of someone you love, you also need patience. Success was achieved by not perhaps thanks to the patience or what?
To obtain happiness and joy in life, you can not go anywhere these irregularities. The "ring" sometimes people have to learn it all away. Do not look down on it okay.

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