Happiness come from?

Happiness is when you count more fun than sadness. The following tips help you create a serene way of thinking to find joy in love, and in family life.

1. Do not blame him when you are frustrated
Just questions like: "Why do not you ever give flowers for the weekend, right?" Or "I know I do not like about that later did he still do that?" That the peace between the two dented.
When asked people to impose their thinking on the other. You thought he would understand and do what they want.

But "the man from Mars, women are from Venus". So sometimes the phase difference between the two is so different thoughts, not because he lacks love you.
The joy of life is largely dependent on the way you think. When unhappy about his behavior, instead of looking angry and blame, you try to understand him calm.
In this way we make things better, but he also "breathable".

2. Discover the art of giving
There is a big difference between voluntarily dedicate and present to the purpose of requiring paid off.
You'd like to give someone something, but secretly expecting a response. This is not how efficiently create joy.
You just build happy successful concept that brings joy lover like myself to create fun for that.
Tribute is heartfelt generosity without reckoning. What do you bring to that person because of their joy, not yours.

To do this, you must take the time to find out what he is interested, wants. In addition to the physical value, be more interested in the gifts bring spiritual values.
Happiness is secured by ropes attached to the soul - the crystallization of time and effort to bring joy to someone you love. He is also happy that you're happy.

3. Learn to listen
Every day we hear the voice of someone you love does not know how many times, but not so-called "good listener".
Let's think beyond where you are to really pay attention to what people love to talk. Also do I have to look forward to, "he / she will say what I want to hear."
Sometimes silence together for the same feel as a way to listen - how can the love of the sympathetic heart.

4. Do not try to change him
Many people believe that "two people love each other only when they want to change for each other." Because of that thought, I always expect love will change in the direction they want.
If you think this is just the frustration, sadness would come much more fun. Because happiness lies in your ability to love all things of the nature of the person.
When you meet him, all the good / bad they gathered in front of that. But you still feel love. So there's no reason to love and expect people to change?
Instead you want to change, you should look how to think and act in accordance with the "object." From there you will be gentle and serene. It's not fun or what we can expect?

5. Practice patience
The "ring" has become affordable obsolete in today's world? But the lack of this virtue, nothing will be sustained at all.
Listen to someone you love, we need to be patient. To understand the mind of someone you love, you also need patience. Success was achieved by not perhaps thanks to the patience or what?
To obtain happiness and joy in life, you can not go anywhere these irregularities. The "ring" sometimes people have to learn it all away. Do not look down on it okay.

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I love you very much !

While a man was polishing his car, the eldest son of his 4-year-old picked up a pebble and draw many ridges on the other side of the car next to him. While the anger, the man took the child's hand and hit without getting much stronger that he was using a wrench to screw type

The result is in the hospital, his son has lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the son saw his father's eyes show the pain, the boy asked, "Daddy, When is the new baby's fingers grow back?" The father felt very painful and did not say a word, he returned to his car and kicked it a lot.

While being tormented conscience and sitting opposite the side of the car, he suddenly saw the scratches by his son drew that: "Daddy, I love you so much Dad! "

And a day later, the man decided to commit suicide ...

Anger and Love is never limited, so please choose love life to be a beautiful and lovely, and please remember this: Objects are to use, and then to love people .

The problem of the world today is the opposite: people are to use, even for things they love.

Always try to remember the significance of this:

- Be careful with your thoughts, as you would say them.

- Be careful with your words, because you will make them.

- Be careful with your actions, for they will be your habit.

- Be careful of your habits, for they will be your personality.

- Be careful with your personality, so we will decide your fate.

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The most precious thing in life

This is a letter to you, the blog of a parent who does not share facilities with words, the three most precious gift of life

When I was little I was playing, kept badgering usually only a few questions, "Why?" Three smiling no response, just guide me to find the answers themselves. The running back crying and asked her grandmother why this, why that it ... and three had heard her grandmother replied: "C ... voracious love her, everything that exists in this world has its own reasons . If there is no such reason, they do exist in this world. Most importantly, every second, every known species. The name does not do it other than its nature, but different in the mind of every person, because that name is because people put out ... "

Since then the three have never seen the introduction forgot his name with anyone, whether it be an acquaintance or a stranger, even with the teddy bear that I love Kina. I have introduced a whole they fully appreciate the yen as a way to confirm the presence of children in the world. My parents are happy I am proud of my name, as a gift for the dedicated parents.

You always remember the ones you do not even named my daughter everything and name all the things that I do not know what is it called ... I hope you remember that first precious thing as "the name ".

Yesterday both glad to cu Bin brother was born. This coincidence is also the date a few years ago, I was taking off. Two sisters share the birthday child. Birthday - three not know like Trinh Cong Son said "bad news from the birth mother to bring heavy" or not, but my son, you can not possibly deny fate.

Wishes of the parents of two sisters birthday child is "Live and courage." Feeding hungry, tired, then rest, do not worry much because life is simple capital. And every year on this day, take 5 years, 10 years or 20 years from now I hope parents will always love you and proud that I have helped on a small part of his life, me, please.

Thank you sisters have come to our family. My parents love me very much and "date of birth" is not affordable precious thing Monday?

In three roses with significant dedicated mother "I love you so much" and three want to do this every day though without any reason. My parents have lived together for many years now? 40 year period is a short non-life segment. I ask why parents can live happily together like that? "Love" ... certainly do love my dear! Parents believe the child will understand when you grow.

Do not you think that love is painful, as is anger broke ... do not misunderstand that I also love the roses, the bright sunshine and molasses. Love the way you live, how you share life together. This is your last price!

Send the request of the parents!

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The meaning of a family

I ran into a stranger on the street while people pass by. "Oh sorry," I said. The other replies: "Well excuse me, I did not see her." We were very polite to each other.

But at home, things are different. Evening, as I was cooking, he stood behind her son. I turned and touched him as he fell to the floor leaning. "Stay away from others" - I said with a frown. My son walked away, his little heart broken. I did not realize that I was too impatient.

Once in bed I heard a voice whisper: "When you treat strangers very polite, but I myself have not done so. Come to find on the kitchen floor, with the flowers lay at the door. It's the flowers that my son gave me. Itself get picked these flowers: Which roses, yellow and blue again. It was quiet standing to bring the surprise, but you never see the tears flowed soaked up his little heart. "

At this point, I burst into tears. I quietly came to the bed and knelt down to his son: "Wake up, little boy, wake up. Are these the flowers you picked for you not? ". He smiled: "I found them on the tree. The mother picked her because they are beautiful. You know you love it, especially the blue flowers ".

What do you know from what family means?

FAMILY = Father And Mother, I Love You!

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