Art of Living For You

Monday, May 27, 2013

Happiness come from?

Happiness is when you count more fun than sadness. The following tips help you create a serene way of thinking to find joy in love, and in family life.

1. Do not blame him when you are frustrated
Just questions like: "Why do not you ever give flowers for the weekend, right?" Or "I know I do not like about that later did he still do that?" That the peace between the two dented.
When asked people to impose their thinking on the other. You thought he would understand and do what they want.

But "the man from Mars, women are from Venus". So sometimes the phase difference between the two is so different thoughts, not because he lacks love you.
The joy of life is largely dependent on the way you think. When unhappy about his behavior, instead of looking angry and blame, you try to understand him calm.
In this way we make things better, but he also "breathable".

2. Discover the art of giving
There is a big difference between voluntarily dedicate and present to the purpose of requiring paid off.
You'd like to give someone something, but secretly expecting a response. This is not how efficiently create joy.
You just build happy successful concept that brings joy lover like myself to create fun for that.
Tribute is heartfelt generosity without reckoning. What do you bring to that person because of their joy, not yours.

To do this, you must take the time to find out what he is interested, wants. In addition to the physical value, be more interested in the gifts bring spiritual values.
Happiness is secured by ropes attached to the soul - the crystallization of time and effort to bring joy to someone you love. He is also happy that you're happy.

3. Learn to listen
Every day we hear the voice of someone you love does not know how many times, but not so-called "good listener".
Let's think beyond where you are to really pay attention to what people love to talk. Also do I have to look forward to, "he / she will say what I want to hear."
Sometimes silence together for the same feel as a way to listen - how can the love of the sympathetic heart.

4. Do not try to change him
Many people believe that "two people love each other only when they want to change for each other." Because of that thought, I always expect love will change in the direction they want.
If you think this is just the frustration, sadness would come much more fun. Because happiness lies in your ability to love all things of the nature of the person.
When you meet him, all the good / bad they gathered in front of that. But you still feel love. So there's no reason to love and expect people to change?
Instead you want to change, you should look how to think and act in accordance with the "object." From there you will be gentle and serene. It's not fun or what we can expect?

5. Practice patience
The "ring" has become affordable obsolete in today's world? But the lack of this virtue, nothing will be sustained at all.
Listen to someone you love, we need to be patient. To understand the mind of someone you love, you also need patience. Success was achieved by not perhaps thanks to the patience or what?
To obtain happiness and joy in life, you can not go anywhere these irregularities. The "ring" sometimes people have to learn it all away. Do not look down on it okay.

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Never give up the dream

There is a boy living with his father, who worked as a horse trainer. Due to work, fathers are to live as a nomad. He went from farm to farm to train the horses were not tamed. As a result, the boy's education was not very stable. One day, the teacher told him to write an essay entitled, "Growing up I wanted to do for a living?".

That night, he has written seven page paper describing aspirations of someday own a horse farm. I express my dreams more real. Rather I draw the diagram for future horse farm area of about 200 samples, in which you specify where to build a house, as the place where the horses run.

Finished, the boy brought the teacher submissions.

A few days later, he got back to his post with a big one and a bright red line of his remarks "Come see me after class."

So the last time he came to me and asked:

- Teacher, why I was the one?

- I have a work plan that you can not do it. My dream has no basis in fact. I do not have the money to come from a close family no stable residence. Generally, they are not a viable resource to make their estimates. You know owning a horse farm, you need to have a lot of money? Now I give you to make the post office. If you fix it more realistic, I will consider the scores of children. Is that clear?

That day, the boy went home and thought about forever. Finally he met his father for advice.

- I love you, yourself have to decide for three thought it was my dream.

Listen to respond father, the little boy smiled and then went to his teacher:

- Teacher, you will be able to keep his first point, but I would like to keep his dream.

***

Over the years, that teacher has accidentally led his 30 students to a farm 200 samples for camping. Coincidentally, two teachers met. Holding hands, he said:

- Hey, when he was studying with me, I stole his dreams, and for many years I did so well with other children, I am very sorry about that.

Hear him say, this boy was the boss quickly replied:

- No, sir, I can not fault anything, he just wants nothing more good things will come to his students only. And I just want to pursue the aspirations of his life.

The secret of smile

In English the word "smile" means smile, a smile that you know is made up of elements which are not?

- Sweet: sweet.

- Marvellous: wonderful.

- Immensely likeable: adorable.

- Loving: loving.

- Extra special: critical component parts.

The smile seemed normal but is very valuable gifts that nature has generously bestowed upon mankind. How will we live without knowing smile? We will express how happy without smiling?

Smile can dispel any grief, heal all wounds, relieve loneliness and foremost is to bring people closer together ... Smile is the valuable asset that not everyone can be easy if you do not have to open our hearts to receive it ... Give yourself a smile with meaningful work, you'll see this wonderful life that would be!

You can make yourself to become a new man: morning wake up smiling, walked out of the house smiling, smiling when meeting others, smiling when working, resting and smiling - All this is a good habit. Smiling is a joy that you can self-perform.

- Smiling beautiful than our frown.

- Smiling makes us more happy.

- Smiling date that we are about to go through and become meaningful.

- Smiling useful for making friends.

- Denotes Smiling friendly, approachable.

- Smiling creates a good impression to others.

- Smile at someone else, others will smile with you.

- If you smile, you become more confident and more attractive.

- Your smile will alleviate the anxiety of others.

- A smile can get you true love.

When you give a smile to someone else, you may feel true joy, others are cheering your encouragement, their sentiments can therefore excited. You quickly find happiness to others for a more beautiful world, for a heart to express joy, we smile on!

What is love?

You have found a true love?

Some people say, life is a process of finding love, each person has to find three people. The first is the one you love the most, people who love their second and third best companion in life (your life).
First you will see the one you love the most, understand the feeling of love, then met his sweetheart the most, and get a sense of being loved, you've experienced love and sense of "being" in love, can know What are their needs and also will find the most suitable partner in life.

Unfortunately, in real life, the three are often not the same as a person who you love the most do not choose you, who love you the most is not the one you love the most and your partner is not always the you love the most, is not love you the most, who appears only at the most appropriate!

You will be a few things in my life!?

No one want to change your love, when you love someone, that's when you truly love him, but when he does not love you and you really do not love, can not pretend not to love when the person you are in love, and he can not pretend to not love your love.

Love is the most beautiful thing in life

When a person does not love you want to leave me, I need to ask themselves are also really love that person anymore, because it is probably not his love makes him want to distance themselves. If you do not love him anymore, please do not ever self-esteem because she would not be away from him. If you still love him, of course you would hope he has a happy life, joy, hope he is in the one you love. Never stop, if you stop him get his real happiness means that you do not love him anymore, and also have lowered themselves for having accidentally let him know that I want possessed him. And if you do not love it as what you get for the person responsible for the silver.

Love is not possession, you like the moon, the moon can not be put in a box, but the light of the moon can make lighting in your room. Just as you love someone, you can still get him without possessing and making love becomes a memory eternal life.

So love with the heart or the brain?

If you really love someone, to ask the real people that love both the good and the bad love, love the advantages and disadvantages, absolutely love it because he hopes that it becomes a people as you want, if he can not come, then we do not love him anymore.

Ask someone who really does not say love is the reason why, you just know that, at any time, any where, good mood or bad, happy or sad, you are also desired him at your side, and that's enough, do not ask anything more ...

Distance is also a test of love, true love will never become angry love. Two people love each other, my favorite is the catch you have to swear, to promise, why should we start to do the same, all because we do not believe the enemy ... I do have things running smooth stone sea, sky and earth spread, if any, who do not live up to that day .... In love, one might say, as a perhaps, who could not believe what he said speaker and the listener does not believe what he heard ... That is a lie of love!

So you've found a few things for your life?

Two grain

You're closing yourself somewhere to be safe, to keep intact the perfection of yourself?

Read the story below and ask yourself again: Do you want to go out there to do what you want with a little bit scared, a little bit challenging, a bit difficult, but it will break the bag tight to choking him, to really "live"?

"There are two grain it is retained for seed for the next season because both grains are good, are strong and make body again.

One day, the owner brought them to sow the fields nearby. County first said to myself: "What have rabies according to the boss. I do not want my whole body to be rotten in the land. It is best to keep us all nutrients in the crust and find an ideal place to reside. "Then it chooses a hidden corner of the barn to roll on it.

Also Monday, the grain would be boss day brings seeding. It's really happy to start a new life.

As time passed, the first grain to be dried up in the corner of the house because it did not receive water and light. Now that nutrients do not help-it is dying. Meanwhile, Monday though grain rotten in the land itself, but from the golden rice grows up, laden with grain. It brings to life the new grain ... "

Never shut yourself in the fixed shell sure to keep intact the sense of self which courageous step, silently bear rotten to contribute to the field's life a little rice - which is selected for the second seed.

I hope it will be your choice and I in front of the field this immense life ...